The Power of Positive
What if I
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A Better Way to Date
If you have
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Boost Self Esteem....FAST
by Eli Davidson
1. Change Your Outfit Change Your
By dressing in what makes you feel more confident, studies show your
self-assurance will increase.
2. Pay Yourself
Keep a jar in a handy place and pay yourself to pay attention to your
words. When you hear yourself say the words, “I can’t”, “I’m fat”, “I’m
a loser” or anything negative put in a quarter. You will break the habit
of “negative self speak”.
3. Play Date
Giving yourself time to enjoy what tickles you and only you boosts your
confidence. Needlepoint, making Jell-O molds, playing an electric
organ…do what pleases you.
4. Pleaser versus Teaser
Take one meal and go get yourself the food that makes your tongue
tingle. Guilt free. Any time you give yourself having the please what
you love you become more familiar with the joy of what deeply pleases
5. Backwards Day
Get up on the opposite side of the bed. Brush your teeth with the other
hand. Take a new way to work. By reversing the way you do things you
become more aware. It is the first step to interrupt a pattern of self
6. Shake What Your Mamma Gave You
Turn up the volume and dance, dance, dance. Research is showing that
dance is as effective as Prozac in diminishing depression.
7. Beauty Rest
Lack of confidence can be related to not getting enough rest. Set your
alarm clock a half an hour early…to go to bed earlier.
8. Wedding Gown Therapy
Don’t laugh. It’s tough to feel lousy wearing 11 pounds of satin and
lace. Go to a thrift store and buy yourself a ‘funk buster’ outfit. If
you are feeling blue, put it on.
9. Get Up to Get Up
The moment you start to feel shaky, sad or fearful- stand up. Moving
will help you to disconnect from your negative thinking.
10. Crappy to Happy
Give yourself 2 minutes to vent what you feel crappy about. Exaggerate
it. Get it out. The more dramatic the better. Then stand up and spend 2
minutes about what makes you happy.
Giggling is good for you. One of my favorites is to wear a boa or Dr.
Bukk’s Teef (these are heinously bad looking false teeth) for a minute
or two. You can’t feel lousy and laugh at the same time.
12. Rear View Mirror
How far would you get driving 75 mph looking in your rear view mirror?
When you find yourself in self defeating thinking or feeling say “stop”.
Change your focus to something positive in your environment.
When in a funk say the word “happy” 25 times. You will feel better fast.
This is a NLP (neuro linguistic programming) pattern interrupt.
14. What Would Oprah Do?
Pick your hero and act with the same level of confidence. By acting like
you have more confidence, studies show that you will actually have more
15. Use An Underused Four Letter Word
P-L-A-Y. in my work, I find that it is one of the most effective self
esteem boosters. Instead of working on a problem, dilemma or bad mood
p-l-a-y with it.
16. Helper’ High
Studies show that a phenomenon of the endorphin release of running
occurs when you help someone in need. Call an elderly neighbor, offer to
pick up groceries, mentor a child and call me if you don’t see a huge
boost in your self esteem.
17. Theme Song
You probably already have a motto or affirmations; find a song that
lifts you. “Isn’t She Lovely” is my current favorite. Blast it when your
spirits are sagging.
18. When the Going Gets Tough…
The tough get horizontal. Thomas Edison and Winston Churchill used the
positive power of napping to help themselves discover answers to
19. Flower Power
Buying a yellow freesia changed my life. Giving yourself the gift of
some blooms will help you blossom.
20. Fan Mail
Get a few cards and write yourself the things you would love to hear
about yourself. Pop them in the mail every other week.
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About the Author
Eli Davidson built a design company from
$17 and a glue gun to 1.5 million in sales in four years. In an 18 month
period she lost her business, marriage and health leaving her $88,000 in
debt. That was in 1999. Using the system she teaches, she turned her life
around. Four years later she had paid off her debt, was living in a million
dollar home, and coaching some of the most successful people in America
including Emmy, Grammy and Golden Globe winners.
Today, she is a nationally recognized woman’s business expert who shares her
‘Turnaround Techniques’ in her new book, Funky to Fabulous. Eli has been
featured on ‘The Today Show’, USA Network, NBC and Fox Television. Contact
Eli mailto:email@example.com or at (310) 842.8076.
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