by Alex Chew
Throughout our experience working
with long distance couples, we frequently heard that long distance
relationship does not have the elements of romance in it. This is not caused
by the lack of love in long distance relationship but couples in such
situation just do not know how to be romantic to each other. Romance in long
distance relationship is necessary and it can make your relationship stronger
regardless how far your lover may be.
There are million of things you
can do to increase the romance in your long distance relationship. The basic
rule here is to build your ability to show your distance partner that you
really cherish and value the relationship throughout your LDR. Below are some
of the areas you must understand and practice in order to increase the romance
in your long distance relationship.
Communication is the most
important thing in a long distance relationship and you must be able to talk
sweetly over the telephone or any
cheap channel that you can grab hold. Tell your partner that how you have
missed and love them on their absence. Remember to tell your distance partner
that you still treasure and care for them even when they are not physically
around. Let them know that although you cannot be with them but you constantly
think, enchanted and fascinated by them. Sweet talk can never be too much and
you can do it as often as you like whenever you got the change to speak or
communicate with your distance lover.
Listening with Care
Listening is the next most
important thing in long distance relationship. It is important to be able to
listen and understand completely the things that your partner is telling you
whether it is about their day, wants or dreams. You are their only trusted
person that they can look for to share and let their anger off without having
to worry and therefore you must be able to listen with care when your partner
needs you to lend them your ear. Sharing with your partner will always allow
you to build and enhance the romantic moment in your relationship.
Nothing is better that a written
note with “I love you” message on it. Include this note whenever you send a
letter to your distance partner or every time you send something to them. When
you had the chance to meet your long distance partner, slip this note into
their wallet, handbag, briefcase and etc without their knowledge. The note can
be anything from simple “I miss you” to full blown love letter letting you
distance partner know how much you have miss him or her.
It may seem that kissing your
partner is almost impossible in long distance relationship but you can always
give a virtual kiss to your partner. You can always make a lipstick mark on a
handkerchief with your mouth or write a “Kiss in Advance” note on a paper and
send it to your partner. Tell your partner that you wanted to give them a kiss
in advance and ask them to keep the handkerchief or note to remind you of the
kiss when he or she sees you the next time.
Having fun is an important and
serious matter in long distance relationship. Take the time to have fun with
your distance lover. Both of your can always spend your time playing online
computer game, surfing the internet, watching a movie at the same time or as
well as spending the whole evening telling jokes to each other on the phone.
Remember the good times that you both had while together and share them while
chatting on the phone. You can also tease and make joke on your partner just
to lighten up your conversation from time to time. Anyway you must know the
limit as over teasing can cause hurt on your partner. The idea is to have fun
while both of you had the opportunity to talk to each other on the phone.
Courtesy and Respect
Courtesy and respect are very
important in long distance relationship. You partner may not be physically
around but they are still part of your life and a little courtesy or respect
can definitely pull both of your closer to each other. Remember to seek for
your partner’s opinion in making a decision concerning the relationship and
this will indirectly show them that you still care for them. Being romantic is
to care, respect and understand your partner regardless where they may be.
your partner is another way to show that you appreciate them in a long
distance relationship. Think of something to complement your distance partner
every day or every week. It does not have to be anything big or major.
Something like “You look beautiful today” or “Your voice is sweet” will make
your partner feel nice about them self even they are far away. On the other
hand, you must remember to give only a sincere and honest compliment to your
long distance partner. Your partner will certainly feel romantic knowing that
you still admire and appreciate them despite the distance.
Above are the
areas of romance to get you started and you can always create your own
romantic moment by using the above examples. Be passionate about your LDR and
romance will automatically show up at your doorstep. Lastly but not least I,
on behalf of Perfect-Relationship.com would like to wish you all the best to
your long distance relationship.
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